Counselling
Overall Approach to Counselling and Coaching
If you have been around long enough you will have figured out that EVERYBODY has problems somewhere. We all think ” It’s just me”. We look at other people, shiny biographies, and think they have worked it all out. Scratch the surface a little and you will find they too are struggling with something or at best for the moment they are successfully ignoring some deep problems.
This is called ‘the human condition, called life. Tony Robbins once said, only the dead have no problems. So, if you do have problems, congratulate yourself on being alive.
In a nutshell, if you want to be on earth you must have problems or at least be a master in the arts of suppression and denial. This pretty much applies till you take your last breath. The art of life is not so much to get to the stage of having no problems but to use life’s challenges, failures and deep traumas to the best of our advantage. The better you get at the art of dealing with problems the easier life gets, the more fun it is and the more you can be of service to others.
Each ‘issue’, ‘problem’, ‘trauma’ or ‘disability’ has at its core a tremendous gift. The bigger the issue, the greater the gift. Hence my tag line is ‘Turn Shit Into Gold ‘.
This is called ‘the human condition, called life. Tony Robbins once said, only the dead have no problems. So, if you do have problems, congratulate yourself on being alive.
In a nutshell, if you want to be on earth you must have problems or at least be a master in the arts of suppression and denial. This pretty much applies till you take your last breath. The art of life is not so much to get to the stage of having no problems but to use life’s challenges, failures and deep traumas to the best of our advantage. The better you get at the art of dealing with problems the easier life gets, the more fun it is and the more you can be of service to others.
Each ‘issue’, ‘problem’, ‘trauma’ or ‘disability’ has at its core a tremendous gift. The bigger the issue, the greater the gift. Hence my tag line is ‘Turn Shit Into Gold ‘.
